Breakthroughs always come at the end of a period of struggle. My last post was all about the most recent period of struggle and all the frustrations that went with it. The struggle didn’t stop there. Shortly after that post, my car, my nice new-ish car started having issues and I couldn’t continue to drive for Uber Eats and Postmates until it got fixed. Luckily I had purchased the extended warranty and thought it would at least be covered, but it was something that was not covered and I had to pay out of pocket. No additional income and a necessary car repair meant that I had to accept defeat and cancel my vacation plans. We had planned to spend this weekend in Salt Lake City with my brother and his family and we were set to go to Lagoon and ride roller coasters.
With my car repaired and ready for the road again, things were looking up and then my (hopefully) last disaster struck. I woke up one morning to find a warm refrigerator and freezer full of warm smelly food. Over $200 in food was rotten, wilted and gross. I had just spent the last of what money I had on food and the loss was somewhat devastating. I mean, I have two teenage boys that are bottomless pits of food consumption. I emailed my property manager and they had a repairman out the next day. Repair was not cost effective so it had to be replaced. I went 6 days without a refrigerator and had to borrow my parents’ coolers to keep the bare minimum of cold items. I emailed my landlord and asked about the possibility to recoup some of the cost of loss of food through a reduction in rent—three times. He couldn’t even trouble himself to respond. We are slowly recovering, but with everything that happened it has been a slow process.
Thankfully, I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. A nice raise and a bonus on the way have things looking up. I feel like I can breathe again and I can relax just a bit.
Without any real plans for my week of vacation, I wanted to come up with a way to enjoy my week with my kids. I came up with an idea, that, while not as exciting as rollercoasters or a plane trip to another city, it gives us something to look forward to. I decided that I would Uber and whatever I make each day will determine what we are able to do each afternoon. If it is a not so good day, we may go hiking or out for ice cream. If it is a good day, we may go to the Discovery Center or on a road trip to McCall. Everything is kind of up in the air and it is anybody’s guess what this week will entail.
Day one, Saturday: On Friday Nathan and I went out Ubering and didn’t do too bad for the length of time we were out. Funds are still limited, but we could still do something. We decided that we would visit the Boise Saturday Market. I have lived in Idaho for almost 22 years and I had never been. On the way, we stopped at Black Rock Coffee, someplace my 15 year old has wanted to try for months. The market was pretty cool and had all kinds of artisan made goods, fresh fruits and vegetables and so much food. The smell of food was absolutely intoxicating. I tried a donut from a gluten free booth called The Muscle Donut. A maple donut, something I haven’t had in forever. It was fairly light and very yummy. Not disappointed at all. We got to check out downtown Boise for a bit. I haven’t really done that since I worked in the downtown area about 20 years ago. I need to take more time to check out more of it because there are a lot of discoveries to be made. We checked out JUMP (Jack’s Urban Meeting Place) and that would be cool if there was anything actually going on, but I am guessing Saturdays are pretty quiet and maybe there is more activity during the week. After downtown Boise, the boys wanted to go to Middleton (the town we used to live in) and check out their favorite places and see what has changed.
Day Two, Sunday: We didn’t make as much money on Saturday night as I had hoped, but we made a little. We decided to go to Cost Plus World Market, a store we all love. I bought each of us a drink and some candy. My drink of choice from Cost Plus is always Spezi, a German soda that combines cola with orange lemonade. I know it sounds funky, but it really is good. I absolutely fell in love with it when I lived in Germany. After Cost Plus we went to Albertson’s Market street. I know that sounds like an odd place to go, but my kids love going there and sampling all the fresh fruit, pastries and cheese we could never afford. The bakery has the prettiest cakes I have ever seen and it is like walking into an edible art gallery. After Albertson’s we drove to the city of Kuna to a grocery store where one of the things we watch for are their “fill it fresh” bags where you can fill a bag with a selection of fresh fruits and vegetables to overflowing for $11. My kids love helping pick out the produce and we were going to purchase some mochi. We were unable to get the mochi, but we still have that in our plan for the week.
Day 3, Monday: Today was a chill day. The youngest offspring woke up puking and continued all day. We didn’t go anywhere, but I did get some jewelry made while watching “The Office” on Netflix for most of the day.
Day 4, Tuesday: Didn’t make much ubering today so funds were limited to what was left from Ubering Sunday night. I picked up the boys from school and we headed for Zoo Boise. When we got there, we found that we only had an hour to get through the whole zoo. Now, Zoo Boise is not very big, but to truly enjoy it you need longer than an hour, but we made the best of it. We were booking it through the zoo, but I think we managed to see just about everything there. My boys wanted to see the Boise Depot but it was closed so we decided to head toward Boise Fry Company for dinner. I LOVE Boise Fry Company. They have yummy burgers and the best gluten free bun I have had (thanks to Gluten Free Galaxy). And as yummy as their burgers are, their fries are even more amazing. They have a variety of potatoes (purple, russet, laurel, yellow, etc) in a variety of cuts (regular, homestyle, curly, string and po balls). We didn’t have the money to get a whole meal so we stuck to fries and in mine and my youngest’s case, po’ balls which are deep fried mashed potato balls. I liked them but not as much as regular fries. The rest of our night was spent chilling at home, and the kids working on homework.
Day 5, Wednesday: My sweet friend Melissa invited us to go with her and her daughters to a place called Circustrix, which is an indoor trampoline park. She had passes that were about to expire so my boys got to enjoy it without an additional cost to us. Score! That was amazing since I had only gotten 2 deliveries during the lunch rush (WTH?!) We weren’t meeting until around 6:45 pm so the boys and I had time to get a bite to eat before we met. There is a restaurant near the park that hasn’t been open for long that I had been dying to try. Gluten Free Galaxy’s brick and mortar location opened in August but I have had their food before since some of the local restaurants and grocery stores sell/use their products. They have the best gluten free hamburger bun I have ever had. My 15 year old is not super fond of gluten free food so he opted for Popeye’s chicken. My 13 year old and I decided to get two different options and split them so we both got to try more than one item. We ended up with pepperoni and olive pizza on their original crust (rice flour based I think instead of the keto/paleo option) and the turkey sliders. Both were delicious, but I definitely preferred the sliders: turkey, avocado and sprouts on the best gluten free bread I have ever eaten. After dinner, my boys got 90 minutes of jumping while I chatted it up with Melissa. By the end of the 90 minutes, my boys were exhausted and sweaty and had had a great time.
Day 6, Thursday: Today’s adventure was the Boise Art Museum. I picked up my boys from their schools at 3pm. By the time we got snacks, drinks and gas and made it to the museum, we had one hour till closing, which is 5 pm. One of the featured artists was Stephanie Wilde and her work was featured in 5 galleries and tackled such subjects as the AIDS epidemic, corporate greed and the effect of climate change on the bee population. The imagery can get a bit dark, but the way it is done is truly beautiful. So many amazing details in each piece. In gallery one they had giant magnifying glasses which allow you to really look at all the details in each piece. She was definitely my favorite artist. Coming in second was Wally Dion, a member of the Yellow Quill First Nation. He combined non-traditional elements (circuits and paint) and created pieces in indigenous quilt patterns. The creative use of materials made for fascinating, textured pieces that beg to be touched. But DON’T!!! After the museum, we had dinner at Happy Teriyaki, an Asian fusion restaurant that offered tasty gluten free options that I haven’t eaten in years. And they don’t scrimp on the portions either. Yummy food and good prices.
Day 7, Friday: Today’s adventure was the Hyde Park Street Fair. This is an event I absolutely love. The folks that visit this event run the gamut from conservative church goers to free spirited hippies and everything in between. There are Artisans selling their wares such as jewelry, clothing (Woohoo tie dye!!!), carved wood and rocks and whimsical metal work. There are food vendors, tarot card readers, ghost hunters, conservation groups and political associations. There is live music from two different stages all day for 2 1/2 days (Friday is only 5 hours). The smell of the food was absolutely intoxicating. My boys and I got some Dutch Bros. drinks (coffee/smoothies for those that aren’t familiar) and each of us picked something out to take home with us. I got an art print from Artsplosion, an artist I first saw at the Portland Saturday market. The artist actually remembered me! Her stuff is whimsical, fun, colorful and silly. And it is right up my alley. I wish I could’ve purchased more of her stuff–there was so much to love–but my budget was already stretched. Aidan got a stone pyramid that was made up of layers of different semiprecious stones. Nathan opted for something edible–the best licorice ever–and three semiprecious stones (he collects rocks and minerals). I thoroughly enjoyed my time there, as always.
This vacation certainly didn’t go as planned. As in, really no vacation, but we were able to make the best of the situation and still have a lot of fun. I really wanted to do something special and we had been planning our trip for a year, but life had other plans. And we reaped some blessings as a result of multiple disasters. We went on everyday adventures, spent a lot of time together and those “everyday” adventures are things we all love and enjoy so it was a win in my book. We were forced to get creative and rework our idea of vacation and adventure. This year has definitely taught me a bit about humility and gratitude and appreciation.